Don't talk to your friends about your marriage
It seems like the most natural thing in the world.
You love your friends.
One of the things that friends tend to do is talk about problems.
It feels good to have someone seem to understand.
Go ahead... Talk with your friends about anything you want.
Except about your marriage and your partner.
Keep that conversation:
1. Inside your own heart, soul and head to work out.
2. As a conversation with your partner AFTER you are clearer about the Prescribed Way.
Why not talk to friends?
There are three big reasons.
The first is the problem of "training your friends."
Your friends will tell you anything they think you want to hear.
If they think you want to hear that your partner is wonderful, that's what they'll tell you.
If they think you want to hear that your partner is ______, that's what they'll tell you.
The second is that your friends don't know any more about marriage than you do.
The third is that it's disloyal to your partner.
Get your own head straight, start here
- Dr. Max
