She's married to Jake... but a guy at work is paying a lot of attention to her.

She says "it feels good to be noticed."

After her second child she feels "invisible" to Jake - as a woman.

Jake is great as a dad, she says, and they get along great.

She just wants so much more.

She wants to be thought of as "hot" once again by her husband.

She wondered, and I ask you, should she flirt with the guy at work?

Can that just be "innocent" - or is there always a problem with it?

Is there such a thing as an "emotional affair?"

What are your thoughts?

What I told her is the same as I say here

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